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About Us
Bocanegra is an invite-only community for couples who wish to explore their erotic fantasies in an intimate, secure, and discreet setting.
In order to attend one of our events, you must first apply for membership or apply with an invite code. Fill out our questionnaire and we'll contact you if you're selected for membership.
All applicants must be at least 21 to apply. Please review our code of conduct before applying.
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Our Commitment
The Lifestyle has been stigmatized in our culture for far too long. That ends with us.
We're working with legislators in California to strengthen protections for consensual non-monogamous relationships and sex-positive communities, ensuring laws are aligned with modern relationships.
Our legislative efforts are shaped by the real stories and voices from our members through surveys and interviews.
Join Bocanegra to help us shape the future of sex-positivity and destigmatize the lifestyle.